When I was growing up it simply never occurred to me that I might one day marry a man who would not notice that the computer monitor was set on completely the wrong resolution, meaning it stretched out the image and drove me crazy. Yet that is exactly what has happened, and this misfortune has caused me to spend a good half hour trying to work out how to resolve this issue before I could edit my photos. How could he not notice this? He works on this thing every day! And everything was all stretched out! It was making me feel queasy!
On the other hand I am married to someone who cooked me a totally delicious yet very low calorie dinner, and who laughs at my jokes. Which are both excellent points in his favour, I'm sure you will agree.